25yrs, Thanks for your insight! One more question though, how do we stand our ground esp, if this is not MLC and only an affair, and let him know that i will not wait or put up w/ his Ow forever? How do I say this w/out sounding too mean? I know in the past i emailed him that i wanted to understand and be here for him, but that i did not know how much longer i could do that while he was sharing his life w/ another woman.
I don't wnat him to think that i am reewarding his bad behavior by putting up with it? do you understand where i am coming from? Someone once said here to me tht at times we must let them know how we feel in order to get their respect and i did just that the other day ( i beleive) b/c of the positve reactions from him.
