Wow, that does sound good! I'm glad to see that you are being both positive and realistic. It seems to me like you're in a very healthy place.
I agree with you that it's wise to keep the C going longer. Particularly if you're finding it beneficial. I personally think once a month for the rest of a marriage isn't such a bad idea. That's only 12 times a year!!!! And 12 hours a year of scheduled meetings to dicuss issues and help ensure communication seems very reasonable to me.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
