My H does that to me a lot too - always waits for me to drop kids off, cancels last minute, and wants to take S4 last minute. It bothers me, but I think about whether or not it's a big deal and choose my battles. I think if you're capable of being nice, then do it - but don't go out of your way to do it.
I decided that for now i feel better and safer on this site remaining somewhat anonymous. I'm sorry for offering my email address prematurely. Hope that we can continue to support each other and post on each other's threads. It's really been helping me cope... You can always send me a PM if you want to vent uncensored! Thanks so much for your understanding. still hoping
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D