Actually, I would have ask him to stick to the visitation agreement. You have a right to schedule appointments when you expect him to be with the girls. That is his problem. What would he do to you? He will not be in any mood to return the favor someday. Stick to boundaries. They will not like it and spew, but they will find something else to spew about if there is no good cause. He needs to get a taste of how a divorce looks.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.