DIY wrote: -------------------------------------------------- Of course BB likes to be sought after, chased, and caught, just not pinned down put in a position of having sex more than a couple times a year. --------------------------------------------------
So you chase her. I am not surprised that you pursue her or that she likes the pursuit, it's just that you continue doing so knowing that she is going to reject you 99% of the time.
Go do something somewhere else.
If you don't like the dancing idea, then go buy a nice used fishing boat and learn to fish if you don't already know how. Invite her to go whenever the mood strikes YOU If she doesn't want to, then go by yourself, or find a good fishing buddy.
Let me be really candid with you, Lou. From what you describe, your wife wants you to decide that you are old, then decide to play "old". I understand a bit about "aching in the places where I used to play", but you need to fully face what she is asking of you.
It is clear that she is ready and willing to wait you out. The question is, how long can you realistically continue to wait? One year? Five?
If you do wait and eventually your sex drive diminishes to negligibility, how are you going to feel about the way you have been treated?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
