I get what all of you are saying. Jazz, sorry you didn't get much out of it. But this is a good place to share these insights for others. Also, sometimes when you post a question it takes awhile to get an answer and sometimes there's a person "way out there" with their advice and you just ignore them, or even say, um, thanks. Calling my coach is great b/c you know you are talking to someone with the same agenda, who is smart. I get that from the DB coaches, AND most mc's do feel fine about divorce. The DB coaches don't say "save the M at all costs", but they sure want us to try. I'm okay with that. Take care, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016