Thank you so much! You don't know how much your words help. Even though I am sitting here in tears....I know that things will get better.
Ben, he came home on Thursday while I was out of town and I asked him to leave last night, Wednesday. He thinks he loves her....so who am I to mess with that. He will realize one of these days how great things really could have been if he would have just given us a shot. By then, who knows where I will be. She is and always will be a crutch and a nut case in my book. He will always be attracted to a much stronger person than she can ever be. That is why he kept running back to me. And I told him that I can not be there for him anymore. He needs to know what it is like on his own. I won't be there to pick him up every time he falls, even though that is going to kill me.
So guys, thank you. I am just at a loss for words. I hope that I have done the right thing but only time will tell. I just couldn't be cheated on yet again. So i had to stop it before it began. I don't have ESP but I know that once he turned that phone back on and went to see her even for 5 minutes, that things were going to start back up. And guess where he ended up last night..... Not my worry anymore.
Thanks!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
