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Holly,
My prayers are with you.... cancer is a creepy thing it hits so many people.. yet many do survive with the right treatment.... hope if its too late for treatment that he does not suffer to long and enjoys the rest of his time on this ride!! ;\)


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Sweet Holly, your optimism is infectious!

Prayers for your family,

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I am a caregiver. I nurture. That is me.

Now I live alone.

Can you see why this BB is so important to me?


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Holly,

I sent you an email. I am so sorry this is happening. TJ may just reach out to you. Remember that your girls will quite possibly need your support through this and if they are to visit their grandfather, they may very well want you there with them.

You are a very strong, fair, and kind woman. You will know what the right thing to do is. I know this because you have been a lot of help to me.

You are in my prayers.


Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
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Holly,

So sorry to hear about your FIL. My prayers are with you.

I think your email to TJ was perfect. Maybe this will make TJ look at his life, the choices he has made and make him start to think about it.

You are such a caring, wonderful person.

Luv ya,
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Thanks so much.
I have a better perspective right now. I took a walk with my friend who is a 15 year breast cancer survivor. As always, she puts these things in perspective.
Trying to put my faith in God for this one. I am realizing that sometimes I hurt by what he gives us, but there is a process involved here, and I may never know it.
I will get to bed soon.


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What a beautiful day!

I am waiting to hear about the biopsy results.
I am not counting on TJ letting me know. Too risky to talk to me right now. He will break down and cry. Since my email is school, I wonder if he will let me know.
I do not expect it.
I will not call. I will not text. I will not email. I wrote "I'M here."
He knows.


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you are a peach, Sugar.

\:\)

luv ya


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Peaches and sugar?
I am inspired.
How are you?
You have a share of my heart these days, ya know.


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thanks, for sharing b/c my heart is acting funny.


“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
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