I recieved a TM from H earlier today. He wanted to know what I told our neighbors about our separation (my one neighbor had emailed me earlier this week to ask if we wanted to get together so I emailed her back and told her we separated). I was at a event for work and could not respond so 10 minutes later he sent me another TM saying that he figured I would not answer. I waited a few hours and wrote him a email and just said that I said he decided he wanted to seperate, that I moved out, and that he would be staying in the house (which is exactly what I said to her). Haven't heard back from him and I do not anticipate that I will.
The funny thing about all of this is he knows that for my job I am not near my phone all the time so I can not always respond right away. When we were together he would just wait for me to write back. Now that we are not together and if I don't text him back right away he usually responds with some sort of message like the second one I got today. Interesting...
