Question: Does the cloud in my wifes head ever lift?
I can relate with you. It has been almost 2 years of dealing with my H and the OW and the cloud still hangs over/in their heads.
Keep trying though. Don't give up even if it seems hopeless. And I had that panic feeling all the time. Keep busy and keep positive. Think that this is only temporary and something you must go through to make it better and it will help you through it.
You seem to think like me, that it is worth it. It is not easy. Sometimes I feel like I am down on my knees scraping the bottom of the barrel. It is gut wrenching alot. The DBusting brought my H home, though. I am still Dbusting and think I see baby steps. It's just that it seems as though, well probably is, you are doing everything and they are not, well at least not at first. I see my H starting to come around just a little. But hopefully, little by little will turn into something big. I still feel defeated, which was my post yesterday and today, but I am just having a down day or two. "It's the emotional rollercoaster".
So don't give up. I got the "I love you, but not like I used to" famous line. Didn't even want to spend any time with me. Was with OW 90% of the time when I got 10%.
