Quote: ----------------------------------------- In some ways I see BB acting like she did the work and now it's time to get what she wants and I see myself thinking I did all this work and this is all the (not much) fun I can have? If I want more I have to put OP through the wringer and think; Why? -----------------------------------------
Maybe you need to look at it in a different way. What amount of BB's comfort is derived from your day to day contributions to the relationship? She is getting most of what she wants from you, correct?
I understand you not wanting to pressure your wife, but in reality, your sexual needs are pretty simple. You aren't asking her for monkey sex, just the comfort of her intimate companionship on a more frequent basis.
Unfortunately, it may be that the only way to reach her is to withdraw some of the comfort your provide in the relationship, in order to highlight that which is missing from her.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
