If a person is in denial about their issues AND they also seem to be happy campers, why on earth would they want to change?
Here is the problem FMPOV

If a person (BB) doesn't deny their issues, but they don't see how they can changes, AND they also seem to be fairly happy campers, why on earth would they want to change? They (BB) will change if I am about to leave the R. but then, there is that worrysome air (my feelings of guilt) of blackmail.

Lou