It really does seem he has some issues that are preventing him from really being able to meet your needs. The good news, as you are OBVIOUSLY aware of, he definitely SHOWS his love for you so that isn't an issue.

How does he respond to touch from you? If you touch his arm casually, what does he do? Can you give him a backrub, foot massage, heck even scratch his back?

I'm just wondering if the way to start is with you touching him in very non-invasive, non sexual ways to start.

Please for give me if you've already talked about and tried these techniques...





Last edited by fearless; 03/29/07 07:58 PM.


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