Quote: ------------------------------------------------------ If by "problem" you mean that "it's a problem to desire to have regular sex and affection from your spouse, and to have your needs taken as seriously as you take theirs, without having to constantly remind them of them," then yes, I have a "problem."
This is precisely why I never want to go to WWME, PromiseKeepers or any of the rest of them: because it's always the man's fault. It is he who must adjust. ------------------------------------------------------
Poor, poor, men.
It is the relationship that must adjust.
You do have a problem. Your problem is YOUR relationship with your wife. She also has a problem with the relationship. She is flashing lights, using semaphore flags and morse code trying to get your attention. You WANT things from her, she WANTS things from you, but you both persist in either miss-signaling, or in insisting that the other is the one with the problem.
Until your wife is on board with agreed upon changes in the relationship, then the problem remains yours.
If there is a car that I want to buy, then it is MY problem to figure out how to buy it.
I am NOT saying that the only solution is to fix you, but you can bet your last dollar that you will be changed in the process if it is to be successful.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
