I still truly believe we are all doing the right thing.
We are about the only ones, the spouses and a lot of people on this board. My family and friends are starting to think there is something wrong with me. But they do not understand. My H is a real a$$hole a lot of the time, but I do give him credit for fully supporting us financially through this whole mess. I think that is what did not let me give up on him. He did not have to do that.
My H never wore his ring except for the very beginning of our marriage. He still doesn't. He always said he couldn't with his work. (which was true). THen when we would go out if he would remember he would put it on, at the end he did not even try.
Suprisingly, when H moved back home this time and we would go out he noticed I was not wearing mine and mentioned it and he even said "It would be nice if you would wear your ring". Shocker! I said ok. I think I wore it once and that was it. I actually don't want to wear and will not until he drops the OW. He has not said anything to me again and I'm sure I have seen him notice. He doesn't wear his either anyways. I haven't wore mine since I found out he is cheating on me.
It feels fake to wear it. I haven't told him that's why I don't. Let him wonder why I don't. You think he could put 2 and 2 together.
