Don't be so sure about "on the same page". Take this slow. No long term talk. No pressure. Continue to focus a fair amount of your time and energy on you and your child. This is in no way a done deal. If you start getting weak, needy, and clingy, he'll get scared and run.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
