Oh I didn't mean to say that they COULDN'T be either. Just that's it's difficult to say absolutely with the limited two dimensional interactions here.
It makes sense to me that two 4/5 couples could have similar core R issues.
Her BF is a type 7 not a 5. That might be the confusion.
Plus there can be similar relationship issues surrounding different personal issues, I think. Okay I am not so sure about that one but I think there is something useful in what I am TRYING to say.
Mrs.CAC4,
I have at least some (although Lillie argues that I am completely one!) Type 5 attributes. Obviously CAC4 and I don't look at things the same way but I still think I "get" him. At the same time, being a woman, I feel connected to you and supportive of you. You have such a great attitude and spirit that I would hate to see you get stumped by the issue on Sunday. I think you both are capable of figuring this out. Good Luck!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus