Also, are you aware that you and your wife's interactions at home are going to eventually become your children's FOO issues?
One thing I notice majorly lacking on the BB is the effect our strained marriages have on the kids. It's as if the marital relationship exists in its own vacuum. When I was in MC, not once did the therapist devote a significant part of the session discussing the impact on the kids. My individual counselor has child training and would bring up the kids all the time. I believe she's unusual in this regard.
