RCR has a great point about MLCers who come back too early and without any conditions. Sometimes just waiting a bit, really examining things, and waiting helps the R to work. There is such a thing as the MLCer just yo-yoing and it benefits no one to allow that. Time yields clarity, hopefully.
I believe 2 things are needed to reconcile successfully. First, you both have to identify each person's role in the problem(s) and be willing to change those behaviors, and second, you both have to forgive each other in order to move on in your "new" M.
Much much easier said than done, btw. But worth it, I hope. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
