Making the leap - Hopefully wount Jinx it!

[limbo]

CL, thanks I find it so hard to focus on the positives, and seem to really zone in on negatives.
As far if he will stick to it, I am not so sure, he hasn't yet, and has never been one to resolve conflicts, this has always been the pattern.
I guess this is what got us into this position in the first place, we had a fight, I said some pretty nasty things, and instead of dealing with them with me, he turned to the OW.
And I guess I just get very frustrated because he doesn't seem to want to change the behaviour, and knows this is one of the biggest problems, which make me question how committed he really is to making this work.