Update... We are going on a family vaction next week to Florida...it won't be a complete getaway as we will be visiting family, but we definitely are looking forward to getting out of the usual routine. H seems stressed out and the sex has an obligatory feel to it. I am hanging in there. I hope things improve while we're away... otherwise, I am flying to Michigan and going through MJ's roster with her. I know she'll be willing to share.