To add to this, my H emailed back and wanted to know why we needed to talk. so I explained that we can't go back to the old ways, having a fight and then ignoring it, we had to resolve it start to finish, because if we didn't it would fester. He said he knew he handled it wrong, and try to cuddle with me this morning to show he was sorry, so I explained that it was nice that he did that, but it also felt like we were ignoring what happened. He said he could see my point and would try and do better in future. He said lets start fresh, and do better.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!