Your post is dead on. It describes my POV on head. I always let her be in full control on head.
People sayu that trust is important in marriage. She was giving me head before marriage, so I gave her my "trust". She is now a different person, and thus I can NOT trust her. When men marry, we are making a HUGE trusting commitment. We are foresaking all other women and placing ALL of our trust in our women that they will be our lovers for the rest of our lives. That is a HUGE gamble. We are putting ALL of our eggs into one basket. Yes. marriage is about "trust". Later we find out they don't really want to be lovers, they just want to be companions.
