Now Surviving Separation

[Heartbroken]

Hi Sol,

Sounds like you may be moving to the MLC group - if it seems to fit this is where you need to go.

We are doing fine - H said two days ago he'll end the lease at the end of April now last night he said maybe May - he seems to worry about coming back even though the OW is gone and out of the picture. We are spending a lot time together throughout the week and weekends. H wants to talk R a lot more and he also wants to discuss the A and her a lot and how it all fell apart. I said last nite we need to start limiting how much OW we talk about - I am over her and it gets weary hearing him purging but I know it's good for him to get it all out too.

H cannot come back until he's 100% there for me and the kids and I think he is --he's just not sure he's ready to make the leap yet. Even if we pay for May and he moves back before the end of May that is fine too. I just want him back but I know it has to be his decision and his timeline or he could resent me later.

Baby steps and one day at a time.... You take care! If you go over to MLC I will make sure to check on you. I am addicted to seeing how everyone is doing and providing input when I can...