I can relate. My W is invloved w/OM who is leaving his 2 kids and pregnant wife. She is constantly calling him, it started as EA and more than likely gone PA. I wish I had some good advice for you, there are plenty of good people here, with very good advice. Do your best to listen and make the changes you need to do for yourself. I haven't been able to do that, but you sound like you have the strength. Good Luck.
