I’ll tell you what I see. I see you as still being reactive, just as you were toward NOP, something about being judged I think.
There is nothing wrong with reactivity in and of itself. In fact, my reactivity with Nop was very beneficial to me. I'm a woman Cobra. I can be very emotional. I could have used that reactivity to my advantage or disadvantage. That is where thought processes are critical. I happen to like the fact that I am emotional and also smart enough to realize when my emotions are getting the best of me. Feel the emotion and then change if need be. I think that is better than the person who is unemotional from the start. Much harder for that person to "get it."
