I'm really concerned that the longer you keep yourself in this situation that its likely you'll end up in an asylum yourself. Damn!
....there's a line from a song years ago that goes "you can't talk to a psycho like a normal human being..." For some reason this pops into my head every time I read your posts! I really don't want to belittle the sitch, but it really is so circular and even from the outside....a bit maddening.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
