Yeas I have read it in many places. I probably should have said a cuase of divorce and not "major" cause of divorce. The problem is that men see this as an issue of trust. We see our future wives as HD women (which at the time they usually are). We get married TRUSTING that the women is really this way. THen after the marriage, they become LD, which in effect is a complete change in personality. So before marriage, they are telling us that they like to give head. We expect this to continue, and guess what, they no longer like to do it. Seems to me that this is a MAJOR change in the relationship that is not reasonable.
Everyone says marriage is about trust, well I trusted my wife to actually BE the person I married.
