Originally Posted By: still hoping


I've been reading the book "The Legacy of Divorce"


Sorry - the book is actually called "The UNEXPECTED Legacy of Divorce - the 25 year landmark study" by Judith Wallerstein, Julia M. Lewis and Sandra Blakeslee. On the back cover it says: "here is a book that every divorcing parent must read, and that no child of divorce should be without. An absolute must-read."

Personally, I think it's a great book for telling you what NOT to do through the divorce process to save your kids unnecessary trauma...

M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D