Speedwagon,

I cannot answer you about the coaching--I have not utilized it.

But if a person with an MLCer uses the coaching in the beginning of the MLC it will not change the MLC timeline. Thus improvements won't come for a few years.

You may notice initial look backs and renewed iterest...but that is common to anyone using good DB...and the MLCer still gets worse even as the spouse DBs well.

The coaching and DB are as many say...for you...but in regards to your marriage they set a foundation. DB now in the beginning to set a foundation for now and for a later return.

NO MATTER WHAT you cannot speed up or stop MLC once it has started. If you yank an MLCer back out the front of the tunnel, they will have a worse crisis later--or perhaps right away.

HUGS,
RCR