Please do not say April 16th--that is my wedding anniversary.
OW are not like us. If they were, wouldn't we be the clingy other woman types???? the home-wreckers of the world who does not give a blank about the kids.
I do not believe for a minute they are like us.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Actually, she is outgoing and lively. Does not know a stranger. She is confident, and the oppinion of TJ's family is she won't stick around longer than she is welcome. Fat chance of that. I know she can become a cling on. She will. Funny how the family all said TJ felt sorry for her, and she is alot like me, and they all see her as not taking it. Like I didn't. Well, he isn't married to her. Don't get me wrong, I am amused by this. THey see no future! I am doing the happy dance. But I do want to know that FIL is OK. Phone, ring!
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Thank you BND. Do you think that I have a good reason to be happy? I do. THis is going SO well.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Nope. I am firmly planted. The way this is easy for me, is that I know that TJ has the worst to come for him. This is a sad reality for me. I know it has to happen, but it is coming his way, and this is not a pleasant thought. I know that there will be alot of suffering to come. I am sorry.
As a matter of fact, there is much hurt, here, with my friends. It is hard to be too happy. But I will be there with a hug and a good thought for all that hurt. Thank you for looking in on me. It really means alot. No more walking on the sidewalks with that happy glow, OK?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
The way this is easy for me, is that I know that TJ has the worst to come for him. This is a sad reality for me. I know it has to happen, but it is coming his way, and this is not a pleasant thought. I know that there will be alot of suffering to come. I am sorry.
And....
Because you have this knowledge that the storm is coming you can be prepared. The eye of the storn is the worst part of the crisis BUT once it has blown over there will be smooth sailing.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
What does the eye of the storm look like? Will I be involved?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
