The way this is easy for me, is that I know that TJ has the worst to come for him. This is a sad reality for me. I know it has to happen, but it is coming his way, and this is not a pleasant thought. I know that there will be alot of suffering to come. I am sorry.
And....
Because you have this knowledge that the storm is coming you can be prepared. The eye of the storn is the worst part of the crisis BUT once it has blown over there will be smooth sailing.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.