On your R goals - I'm glad you liked the idea. I stole it from this $500 "marriage fitness" plan I never should've spent money on because it hasn't been worth it, but that part was a good idea I thought!
The main point there is to NOT think of it in terms of your life as it is now. Think about the "perfect" M/R. Then later you recognize that perfection is impossible and "tweak" it to fit you and your life. But just for fun, why not write out the perfect H and the perfect R?? Doesn't mean it will HAPPEN, just your personal ideal. make sense??
And no you don't discourage me at all!!! I just feel like (sorry if I'm way off base) you're missing something that you really need in your life. And I sooo appreciate all your help, and I want YOU to end up happy too, you know?? Not just "moving on" but really happy.
Thanks as always for keeping up w/me.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
