I know this may be imminent, but I'm not ready to do this quite yet. It's not to that point, and I'm not worried about H serving me with papers. If he surprises me and does, I'll have plenty of time to sort through these things. In the meantime, because I do all of the paperwork for the properties and take caer of all of the finances, he honestly would not really know what to do to mess everything up for me... I have control of the properties. So I'm not worried about him coming in the back door. I know legal advice may be necessary at some point, but I'm just not ready for that yet.
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you detach and do it just for you, then you may not feel so drained and feel that OW is reaping the benefits.
This is what is so hard. As I've said, our business was/is simply a vehicle to gain our personal goals that we created for US. If there is no more us, I feel like the business needs to be restructured so that I can make new dreams for me and shift gears. I hope that makes sense... Current properties and way of doing business = US. To pour my heart into it just for me is not the way I feel...
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Isn't selling now not a good time in the market?
Nope, not so much a problem in our area.
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But it is a tough decision b/c so much of what you do is comingled on a personal level. Maybe start separating yourself slowly...i.e. different friends or go out separately with them, look at possibilities of properties you can manage by yourself, pursue other hobbies outside of H & business (if u have time!).
Yes, this is hard because of the personal connection. I appreciate your suggestions. This is the hard part - IMPLEMENTING what I know is the best thing for me to do... Lots to keep sorting through in my mind.
