Its over...she filed part 2

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks kiki and OF. Sorry, I haven't had a chance to be on here, W's out of town this whole week and between work, D and bad sleep I've just been physically exhausted.

OF, you're probably right I haven't carved out a life for me apart from W because she's all I ever think about when I have any free time. I don't even know what carving out a life means. If it means surviving without her then I guess I have it but if it means being happy without her then no. I feel my life's on hold...I'm subconciously waiting for her to come back so I can go do things like traveling etc.

kiki, I'm glad your communication with your H is going so well that you can open up to him about this place etc. I'd be a bit cautious to not spill the beans all at once but again you're quite good about understanding him. I guess I'd want to know at what point he moved on and how? and what triggered it? Then again probably too early to ask him such things specially on my account - the wounds might still be fresh.