Have a wonderful time in Vegas!!! Really try to enjoy yourself and don't think too much. Your brain needs a break. \:\)

About the business, I know I've said it before. I would just recommend you seek legal advice. H is still with OW. You were scared of him leaving you and serving you papers. However, it may be the other way around and you may want to initiate the D if you will no longer tolerate his behaviour and R with OW. You sounded like you were at your last straw this past wk. You need to protect yourself financially no matter what. You don't have to screw H over but do what you need to if you haven't researched the legalities.

As far as the business, I know you put all yourself into it b/c you are doing it for your R with H. If you detach and do it just for you, then you may not feel so drained and feel that OW is reaping the benefits. Isn't selling now not a good time in the market? YOu don't want to have a less stable income if you don't know about the future. But it is a tough decision b/c so much of what you do is comingled on a personal level. Maybe start separating yourself slowly...i.e. different friends or go out separately with them, look at possibilities of properties you can manage by yourself, pursue other hobbies outside of H & business (if u have time!). Just throwing out ideas.

TEll us all about Vegas! Don't get too wild on us. hahha...


Me: 36
WAH: 35
S1: 5, S2: 3, D: 2
Married 13 yrs
Bomb dropped Nov. '06
H filed D papers Feb. 1, '07
H nows says OW is GF since April '07