I seem to do that so well... until... he brings her up and all of the time, too. What do I do about that? Sometimes I change the subject, sometimes I humor him and sometimes I get downright angry, I try to hold bag my anger, but I know he sees it. How do I do that?
Also, I have a few new concerns. He has been snapping at me for no reason at all, I believe. Like take for instance. I was going to the store and straightening my hair with the straightener and he says... "Your are frying your hair, why don't you just give your a rest and quit abusing it." And he will say you me... "You are too skinny, you have no a$$ now." He says these two things to me almost every couple of days. Other people compliment me. And not to boast, because I feel like an old ugly tossed shoe, but I think I am attractive and look nice when I go out. What gives?
And he yelled at me today for not answering his call (mind you this comes from someone who never wanted me to call him before and never answered my calls).
And he snapped at me because I had my phone number hidden when the calls go out on my cell. OW also does this and I think he couldn't figure out which one of us was calling, so he couldn't be prepared for the phone call. I did notice hers is turned back on today, too... hmmmmmm... he must have told her to turn hers back on, too. I think it was pretty funny the other way... at least I can find some humor in all of this. Well, now he know which one is calling ahead of time. I let his anger go with all of these and handled them very well, I thought and quickly complimenting him about something. But what gives?
And I have to end this with I am sure he is out with her again, today. He always stays out way later with her than me. When he is out with me he wants to be home by 7. Everytime he is out with her he gets so drunk smashed and comes home very late. He is not home, yet and it is almost 9:00. Maybe I am boring to him. Why does he always stay out later with her?
