Quote: It's funny but I just read a post by you yesterday and remarked to myself that I had not read anything you had posted before.
It is too late for me, D Oct. 2003, DB too late. Will wait till she remarries. I am not willing to give up after 27 years. She is MLC big time. I post to help others, since I learned my lesson too late. She is still an alien, everytime we talk it is short...anytime we get near OR...she says she is HAPPY, and plans on marrying OM. I die each time so I don't get near it and just ACT AS IF I am her friend. It sucks but that is life.
Quote: She has expressed a huge disappointment in me. I am an embarrassment to her; she has said that but not in so many words. Yes, I know much of this is Mother/teenage daughter dynamic.
From what I understand, kids need to begin there indepence so they can leave home, there are aliens and all you can do DB with them. They will return. My oldest did the same.