hey, IP, what 25yrs, and JJ said are spot on. You are in the early days of this, and one day your H will see that this woman is not a very nice person at all, and he will decide for himself that he doesn't want her around his family. His eyes are just not opened all the way yet.
That's a good idea to watch some funny movies, the funnier the better, and even the really corny ones make me feel better, especially the ones that make me snort my drink out my nose
And try NOT to watch the cheating movies, believe me that's a tough one, because we watch Jericho, a new series, and there is a bar whore having an affair with a married man, and the married man chose her over his W, and his parents are really pi**ed off at him, and his W is pregnant. THAT is a tough show to watch with my H, but he LOVES the show, and I do too, actually. Another one is the Sopranos. It is being shown on A&E from the beginning, and the main Mafia guy is seeing a psychiatrist, whose name is the same as the ow in my sitch, ugghhh!! And Tony Soprano is cheating on his wife, and one night my H asked who the girl was, and I said it's just some who*e he is having an affair with! I hate to say it, but that is one of my favorite shows.
IP, you ARE doing well, no matter the slip-ups. You do need to put up the stop sign, though, even if it's tough. I have to put it up alot, too. Sometimes I have to leave the room and tell myself to shut my big mouth, before I say what I shouldn't. And when he says something mean or unfeeling, I have to remember that a soft answer turneth away wrath, that one really does work.
good luck to you and hugs, and when you and JJ do get to meet, I wish I could come to merry old England, too.
