I was reading through some of the posts and thought I would start my story here as well. I have another thread or sitch (whatever it is called) under the newcomers forum and it is under Affair discovered. Wel here is my story in a nutshell:
Married for four years, had twins a 14 months ago, one boy and one girl. Had some major rollercoasters the past 4 years, almost got a divorce our first year. Suspensions of OW then, but didn't happen. Although he had an attraction towards her. Got through the rough time, marriage was great and I got pregnant 21/2 years into our marriage. This was a planned pregnancy. Had my babies and my H completely quit giving me attention. I did the same towards him, due to the fact that i was so focused on my babies. Had suspicions of OW in Oct. 2006. I confronted him, but he denied. He kept staying away from the house, left for a couple of weekends and avoided me as much as possible. I became the nagging wife and was frustrated. I wasn't receiving any help from him as far as the babies were concerned. Well, I was, but it was very little. I started to do my own things with friends, we started having screaming matches and calling each other names. He degraded me in front of his parents, I decided to leave. He agreed on this. I moved out Dec. 9. He played mind games with me, where he wanted to be with me and then he was asking for divorce. The A was exposed on Feb. 14, 2007. He had been seeing her since Sept. I found out that one of his weekend trips was with her. She works in his office, we all work on the same campus. They in the district office and me in a few buildings away as a teacher. H file March 6, I responded March 21. He continues his A and spends tons of $ on her. I quit talking about her, moved on, accepted the D and want to move on with my life. However, why do I keep coming back to DB and how can I talk to him when we exchange kids. I cannot even look at him I am so angry! Well off to a meeting, please let me know what you think.
