I also believe that my expectation of head (with swallow) is a legitimat position
According to "Guide to Getting It On:"
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Who knows what to advise about swallowing male ejaculate, except to say that a man shouldn't push the issue unless he is willing to swallow a mouthful of his own, although the actual amount is closer to a teaspoonful. Suggestions for how to give a really good blow job without swallowing are listed later in this chapter.