I am not familiar with your sit but can identify with some aspects ike the letting go and letting God.
I keep thinking about Retroville. Turns out one of my day care parents and her H attended a few years back. She said that it was great!
Thing is my H and I attended a marriage retreat in Oct and H didn't benefit at all. He's in the Withdrawal phase of his MLC and because he couldn't find any pat answers the retreat only served to add to his stress/confusion.
So maybe the Retroville is for on up into the future.
I remember the Anger. I used to tell my kids to just be quiet and let it blow over.
I also remember being in the car sometime in the fall and him mentioning his yelling sessions. He said he was sorry and did not intend to ever do that again.
Thanks for your post, it helps me remember to keep giving my H to God , to pray for him and to keep letting go and letting God.
This from Lily who is fighting urges to manipulate/control. Learning to let that characteristic diminshish and not be a part of the new me. This Life Lesson is real hard. <Sigh>
