How do I handle a walk out woman? One that is involved in an emotional affair? One that shows no signs of remorse? One that shows now signs of wanting to reconcile?

I know that I had my part in getting our marriage into the state that it is/was, but I had no idea of this Mountain that I am now trying to climb.

...my part in our marriage getting to the point were she feels that she can never become emotionally connected to me is that I am reserved and do not make my self vulnerable. I learned at an early age that it is easier to keep to oneself then it is to open up and get hurt. C has helped me learn this about myself. My wife on the other hand is the type of person that will not let circumstances dictate her life. She is a strong person and really has not let me make many decisions in our marriage. As you can see a recipe for were we are at today.

Help!! I am lost and do not know what to do.


Me - 30
2 girls- 3,6Current