He is leaving to be alone to THINK - now what?

[Heartbroken]

There is where you can really decide what you want! When you finally get to that peaceful place knowing you can be without him and be fine.

My H was the same way - slept with her one last time so as to not hurt her feelings - but I said you were still hurting me big time. It was just that I appeared much braver/stonger due to good DBing. He spends one last nite telling her he loves her and still wanting to end it. I swear I do NOT understand these men or WAS's. The addiction is hard to break...my H is going on three weeks and is just starting to see her true flaws and some basic fundamental reasons they would not have made it R wise... I swear they lose any real rational thought processes with all the teenage love actions going on...He now says he would have been miserable in a few yrs had I allowed him to leave and D...

I hung in there and I am much better for it right now. Your sitch may be entirely diff - you have to do what is best for YOU!