Outstanding! There will always be disagreements, it is what you do with them that matters.
Yep. I am FAR from perfect in this regard but for example, yesterday we were having dinner (alone even) and started talking about our trip and how it looks like we might not be able to go. I got a bit upset and she got mad at me for being upset. I didn't apologize for my feelings and we carried on. Before we would have just gotten more and more angry because the other was not happy...vicious cycle...and silly to boot.
As we talked, she got upset and stormed off. I started to follow her to push whatever the issue was and then stopped, FINALLY learning to just let her be sometimes. It worked. We both calmed down later and things were great. I THINK we even had our first ever make up $ex!
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Maybe on this vacation you'll find a romantic spot, push her up against a wall, and kiss her madly...
Amen sister! Then, as we break away from each other's passionate embrace to find ourselves surrounded by the enchanting ambiance of small town Greece I'll look into her eyes and say "THAT my dear, was for Oldtimer..." and then spend the rest of the trip explaining who or what Oldtimer is, lol.
