sorry mom, I do remember reading that. I try to keep up on so many so sorry for the mix up. I think at this point you need to file an answer and maybe a counter-complaint to protect yourself from this point forward. You don't have to tell him you don't want a d at this point, I'm sure he knows that. Filing the answer is all business. It depends on how far you want to go with the counter-complaint. I'm sure your L will explain all of this to you. Good luck.
Me 31 WAH 30 M 5 Together 14 years S 4 divorced 7/11/07