I'm in a similar situation and am confused as to what to do.....It seems like my wife is constantly lying to me and anyone else that she has ever loved.(i.e. her parents) Her deception hurts and tears me apart...But I cannot stop loving her. Besides all this BS...she is and has been an amazing woman. I keep praying that she breaks and we can start restoring her and our marriage. The only advice I can give is to hang in there and keep the faith.