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Ever, sorry your MIL is getting involved in your sitch...I know how hard that can be as I sorta have the same sitch...

His anger will subside and then it will come back...my therapist likened it to you being the sun...your H orbits around you but orbits can make planets go far off into the hinterlands...in an oval but each time they circle they move just that much in closer...eventually he will come around (literally)...what the real catch is, are you gonna be the sun in the middle or will you have turned into a black hole...no sun, no stars...just nothingness....in other words, are you gonna be patient and wait?


I am sorry about the child support thing...but he is their father and he SHOULD be paying support for them...

Hugs to you, sweets!
Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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Ever,we will make it dang it.

You are foxy, and your smile and eyes speak volumes about you.

This money is their right.

IT is the law.

I pray that his latin temper subsides.


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Girl,

Do not ever drop the "s" word on my thread without explanation.

You 'bout flipped me outta my wig.



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So, last night I get a call on my cell at about midnight. I decide not to answer because I figured it would be about cs notice. Finally settled back down after an hour of praying and went back to sleep.

Obviously he was stewing still so I get this text at 7:18am...

Does this mean filed 4 divorce too?

To which I replied, "Does what mean?" (HEE,hee...) He replied "CS papers that I got. Does it come with divorce papers?" I did not reply.

What should I reply, if at all? This will have to be addressed sooner or later. I need a generic ,unemotional reply. What do I do?

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So, last night I get a call on my cell at about midnight. I decide not to answer because I figured it would be about cs notice. Finally settled back down after an hour of praying and went back to sleep.

Obviously he was stewing still so I get this text at 7:18am...

Does this mean filed 4 divorce too?

To which I replied, "Does what mean?" (HEE,hee...) He replied "CS papers that I got. Does it come with divorce papers?" I did not reply.

What should I reply, if at all? This will have to be addressed sooner or later. I need a generic ,unemotional reply. What do I do?

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You could not reply...that would be okay.

You could make a comment about there being no D papers with the CS...you have received everything.

Just hold off and wait though...maybe he will say more through out the day.

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Leave him guessing.

If he really wants to know he can call the court.

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And the beat goes on ...

"I would like partial custody since kids enjoy thier stay so much. Ur thoughts?"

Have not replied, as I did not this morning either but ... i think that this is going to be a loooooooooonnnnnnnggggg haul.

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