OK - so we are back on track. H is truly committed. Had to yo-yo a couple of times and actually tell me to my face that he wanted a divorce before he realized that it was the wrong choice. he is really back, wearing his wedding ring, we are even spending the weekend with a bunch of our old, and his new friends.
in kind of the honeymoon phase right now, seems like a good place to stay for a bit - the road has been really long. i know that there is much work to do here, but i know that we are finally on the same page.
