Wow, I don't know how I missed this (reply to your husband) yesterday. Must've been tuned out.
This is great. I love the "let's try (however imperfectly) to be each other's soft place to land."That's some beautiful and powerful imagery there, karen. (note to self: steal this line).
I really wish HP were here to help with the pregnant/horny vibes you're sending out.
I think you're on the right track, and good luck with the vacation. When are you leaving? (Note to Karen: bring lots of towels, clean newspaper, a couple of big garbage bags to save the seat covers, a butane stove, and a pot of water to boil. Oh...and a camera!)